I'm so sorry.. I know exactly how you feel, from first hand stuff. it sucks to work with your dog so much and have your parents/family/roomates totally go against what you ask of them, but it always happens. My dad gave Gonzo a cooked pork rib, after I asked him not to, but luckily he didnt ingest it. Just talk about all of this with your parents, and work with Jasper as I know you will . good luck, everything will get better!