Thanks every one ,I just am concerned about health issuses that I tried to tell them about but . Kids they don't listen. Diabetes is VERY strong in my hubby and my families. One of my 2 will get it and there is a 1in six chance of any children born to my kids will be born with it.
All 4 grandparents are diabetic 3 on insulin my dad and I are on oral meds for now. My paternal grandma was also.
Then there is the $$$ issuse they are broke and on food stamps now! They (I think) think I am going to be a babysitting grandma while they work (sorry not happening) I raised mine its time for me to have a life.
I am one of those people who is not baby crazed. I love mine to death but mine not every body elses.I also like them best after the age of 2.
I asked the kids to have a DNA work up done first but no they had to go ahead and stop any birth control 6 months ago.
I guess I just pray alot and be supportive .