Well, Tonya, I can see you have very strong opinions on the subject. I'm not AS strongly opinionated as you are, but, I do think that in most situations, you're absolutely right. I mean, for the most part, most of the guys I've dated I wouldn't care at all if my niece or my friends dated them. I mean, I prefer it not to be a week later! But, for me, it's the simple fact that I developed strong feelings for the guy, quickly, and, they are still in my heart. He's still someone I think of dailly and would like to be with. And, because of those feelings, I don't think she should consider going out with him. It was like I already had this open wound cuz I knew I wasn't going to be with him like I'd like to be, and, finding out that she's into him to was just like rubbing salt on the wound that had just been inflicted. But, again, I think if you're friends with someone and you know how they feel about the subject, you owe them as a friend to respect their feelings. And, for me, as long as I no longer have feelings for the guy, I don't care who dates him. But, if I'm still hurt by what they did or still have feelings for him, then, I think it's off limits to my friends. It's just asking for problems.