First of all (((hugs))) Lori!!! How strange that she has suddenly gotten moody ... maybe the heat thing is a good theory. Or... maybe she was in heat to begin with and now is out of it? I can certainly understand your frustration, and your fears of being hurt by her .... kitties can be very intimidating to say the least!!! Please just follow your heart, and don't feel pressured in any way to keep her, if it just doesn't seem to be right for your family right now. But like CCL said .... don't forget the Magooster! Whatever you decide, I hope you know that I support you 100%.

Kim