That sort of reminds me of a silly little thing that my brother-in-law said so I will share it. His parents had both wished to be cremated with their ashes sprinkled over Diamond Head in Hawaii, and so when his dad died his mom had his ashes. Then when his mom died my brother-in-law became caretaker of both boxes of ashes. They arrived via FedEx or UPS one day at his house. My sister-in-law called home from work one day (my brother-in-law is disabled and doesn't work) and asked what he was doing. Since the ashes were on the kitchen table at it was noon, he said "having lunch with the folks." (((Hugs))) to you. I am glad you can laugh a little.