Thank you everyone!

We would look into those child support collection services, but they are set up for people who aren't paying... she is currently paying what the court mandates. We think the court is nutes to order her $14 every two weeks towards arrears. $14????? Sheeesh. And when we try to talk to the courts about it, they say, "well, she's paying so we can't do anything about it." So we'll wait for the first time she's missed a payment - whichj was this month. Perhaps she's waiting to see if she doesn't have to pay for my step-son? Either way, she missed a payment this month already.

I feel bad whining about CS because if they were all three our own children we'd have the expenses ourselves, without her support, so why do I feel so strongly now? To me, it is the principal of the issue --- she has three lovely, wonderful kids and doesn't know anything about them nor does she care to know anything.