Thank you, I'll change "we" it "I" - there is a court order to pay - a court order for a whole $14 a week! We're trying to get it changed. We keep trying to have more garnered and she keeps filing a petitition to not. The last time it actually went through, she simply quit her job and didn't work for several years... at least this way we're getting SOME money a month.

We honestly cannot afford an attorney to handle the case. We have no money. I'm sure that if we looked, we'd find one that would take the case on an as-win basis, but hubby said "you can't get blood from a stone" so even if we won, she still would not pay it. She's not afraid of being arrested because she knows it won't happen. she also knows hubby is afraid of her and would like as little contact as poosible. The last time he ever spoke to her was three years ago, before we got married, and she had the nerve to ask him if he'd sign a paper stating she'd paid the CS she hadn't. I swear that if I wasn't there, with my jaw on the ground, that he would have said yes... because she has that kind of control over him.

Of course she's out of state.