Not weak - if you were weak, you wouldn't have the wherewithal to withstand all this. You just need to learn to set boundaries, that is all. There was never a class in school saying "how to set boundaries" and you cannot blame yourself for that. Just remeber to take care of yourself first, furbabies next, then the humans can take a number for when YOU are ready! I don't at all mean that you should be hard-hearted, just that you need to take care of yourself, or you'll end up in no shape to help anyone!

Hey - with all this extra help, they should all cook Thanksgiving dinner for YOU!