OK I am back - first I just answered YES and now I will answer more. Sometimes, I spend so much time here and become very emotionally involved with many of the things going on - the sick animals, abuse stories, and even the personal struggles of some of the PT folks who have become my friends. Once in awhile, when a discussion becomes heated, it really bothers me ALLOT! This is my nature. So, I answered yes, because sometimes I stay away completely for a day or two, just to protect my sanity. There are some people who I feel are very critical & negative and so I block them. Other times, I see another post about abandonment of animals and depending on my mood - I just feel I can't take it right then. A few nights ago - I had been avoiding one about some terribly abused kittens but finally made myself look - and the sad pictures I saw just made me hysterical and I cried into the night. I should NOT have looked because A)I was PMSing B)I was low on sleep anyway and C)I was worried about some sad family problems.
I am not a *wimp* exactly because I DO care about things very deeply and normally involve myself at all costs - but sometimes I have to protect myself without turning away from problems and sadness. I do not ever want to lose my compassion. (small chance of that ) OK, so I AM a *WIMP*.
end of novel~did anyone stay to the end?

PS -I agree that an answer to the memorial threads is very much appreciated - it does not take much - just "I am sad for you" or "I am sorry" - I know when my time comes to grieve - I will be thankful for any words!! Nothing eloquent is necessary at all!!!