I am soooooooo sorry that you had to give Lila away, she was such a beautiful pup. I kinda know how you feel, I had to give my Dalmatian away because my Dad hated her and I was so upset because I loved her so much and she was the best dog I had ever had, my new dog is almost as good as she was though.
I hope Lila finds a good home! at least you gave her away knowing it was best for her. hopefully soon you will find another dog that gets along well with everyone in your family.