Lila appears to be totally dependent on Sam for entertainment right now and I don't think that's really fair for either. They each need some time alone with YOU. I know your time is limited with all your responsibilities but I do think it would be worth it in the long run if everybody (hubby included) just made the sacrifice for at least the next few weeks. Little Lila is still trying to figure out where she belongs in the mix and her brain is still confused (and YOUNG). They will figure it out with just a bit more time to settle. My opinion only.

Laurie