Oh my dear, sad Sandra. Since I haven't been able to keep up w/PT lately, Logan has kept me informed. I honestly, don't know what to say, There are no words to express my sadness. As awful as it sounds, I'm glad Buff was identified so his family can lay him to rest. My friend at work has a lost cousin so the feeling of helplessness and sadness plus anger, is overwhelming. I pray that God gives you and yours the strength to endure. Please take care of your wee self, as getting ill will not be beneficial for carrying on. The girls need you as much as you need them. On these holy days for me, I will pray with all my heart that you all will be blessed with peace and solace and that you will be watched over and protected in your time of need