I'm pretty much the same on here and in real life...I don't talk much...due to that fact that I'm shy...but thats something I am working on...just like on here I lurk around in real life too... ...I know I'm pathetic (sp?) You know for this to be a pet message board there is an awful lot of drama amongst people here .....but I understand about the back stabbing thing..it sucks and I wish people would just grow up and tell that person how they feel or just don't talk to them at all or even about them...