This is a sore spot for me. I have a list of people on Ignore that I didn't before, because I was getting PMs saying bad things about people and then I would turn around and see them tell the same people how wonderful they are and that they just adored them in public threads. Sickening.

If I don't like someone, I generally don't reply to them in any way, shape, or form. I stay out of their way and if it's a mutual dislike, I expect the same from them.

I think a lot of people are different in Blogs because they can say anything they want to in them, whereas PT is a community where you censor your language and try to respect others and their feelings. Blogs are a whole different realm than message board communities.

But yeah, pretending to be friends with a person in public and then badmouthing them in private is nauseating.