HI, KNOW JUST WHAT YOU MEAN! I'VE A COUPLE THAT ARE "STAND-OFFISH" THEY'LL LET ME PET THRM BUT, THAT'S ALL 1 GIRL I ADOPTED AT PS...HAD HER 7 MTHS. 1 GIRL IS A RESCUE KITTY. HAD HER A WEEK TODAY, MOSTLY SAW HER THURS EVENING, WHEN SHE WAS CRATED AFTER HER SPAY!! WISH I WERE CLOSER, I'D TAKE THAT PRETTY GIRL!! GOOD LUCK FINDING A GOOD HOME