to watch her eat; when she sticks out her tounge to grab a piece of banana and pulls it in her mouth (she'll eat all the banana pieces first, then go to her next favorite food and eat all of that and so on..). And stroke the side of her neck, she leans WAAAAAAAY over with her eyes closed into your hand and if she's on her big stick you have to switch to the other side of her neck so she won't tip off the stick!