I second what Cookiebaker said. The crate will be a tremendous aid in housebreaking Waffles and keeping your things safe. I am not worried about Waffles as much (because I know he can learn) as I am about your hubby's attitude. It is best to be 'of one mind' when trying to train a pup. It is a very stressful time (frankly I am glad those days are long behind me! ) and you need each other to be working together on this. Some dogs are a little more challenging and headstrong than others. I have had 6 poodles in my adult life and each one was different, with their own personality. I hope that Waffles and Wicket can eventually come to a place when they can co-exist somewhat peacefully, even if they do not become best buddies. Puppies can often get on an older dog's nerves. How old is Wicket?