Seems like there are some men that just don't get it! That is the way my husband was for awhile, until the bleeding started, then he seen that it was for real.

I think you need to do whatever you can to get rid of the pain, if the doctor says the surgery then if it will stop the pain, sounds like a winner. Maybe the doctor needs to have a talk with your hubby! You could have a baby and then if you wanted to, get rid of the problem for good. I have never been happier than I was after I had my hysterectomy, and I woke up with no pain, and no bleeding!

I do wish your husband would reconsider about having your baby now, if that is what you want. I think he needs to decide before you are not able to have a baby.

Sometimes, it would be nice if a man could just understand all that is involved in being a woman! Whew! If they had to go through that pain. LOL, they say it hurts to get kicked between the legs, I wonder if that is mind over matter? Tell him that is the way you feel too.

Willie