Poor sweet Amy, and poor you! I can just imagine how heartbreaking it must be to see her in discomfort and struggling about. I totally understand your decision to stop all of the prodding and probing .... at this point I agree that it is just stressing her unnecessarily and causing her more discomfort. I think I would just try and keep her comfortable and show her as much love as you can, until you feel she has reached a point where her quality of life is very poor. I hope and pray that time has not come as of yet, and that she can still enjoy her little life full of love in your tender care!

((((HUGS))))

Kim