I share the same feelings as Debbie. I can totally understand why you would be furious. I too have indoor only kitties and I am also really careful with the door and ask others to do so if they visit. Your stepdad is being extremely rude and inconsiderate . Those are your babies and you are in a time of need - how dare he take advantage of that just to get your goat.

Is there anyone else who might be able to help you? Wish I could!