Ko and Dadcat,
My deepest sympathies on the passing of Grasshopper, one of my favorite tuxies. Ko, you are a strong, brave woman, and gave Grasshopper the spirit to go on to the RB with love and conviction in a hooman's compassion. My heart still breaks for you, even though I know it was the 'right' thing to do. Godspeed.
Hugs,
Johanna