Yep, I'm fat and not happy about it, yet not motvated to do much about it. In high school I was between 111 and 125 and thought I was so fat. I look at those pictures now and would give a finger to be that skinny. I'm not going to say how much I weigh. Too much . I wear a 16, too. I would be happy in a 8 or ten, cause I like a not TOO skinny figure. Plus I'm short, 5'3,, so my 16 is probably someone else's 18-20 I too have a BF that says he loves me no matter what, but if you're not happy with yourself that's hard to accept.