Oh I hate it so much when people try to "change" someone else by forcing their own will upon them!! It just doesn't work! You can be an example in your own life, and have opinions ... but controlling someone else will NEVER work!!!

Ok... done ranting now! Donna, I'm glad you dodged this bullet ... I would definitely limit my contact with my SIL, but YOU have to do what is best for you! KEEP your SELF confidence, and live YOUR life as YOU see fit!!!

(((HUGS)))