WHAT? Unmarried AND you think she 'deserves' a shower? He he he...you aren't indirectly talking about me, are you? I don't see the issue with the married/non married part...just the part about you throwing it- right? Isn't that what you are asking? Of course, any new life, and the new mom to be (like the new bride to be) is in need of things..so, I don't think protocol turns on that(whatever is left of protocol, anyhow).

I think it would be a lot of work for you, alone. My sister in law and neice (her daughter) are 'hosting' mine..and I know it is alot of work. So, if you could rope in a friend or two, get their help. If not, host the biggest and bestest you can. You only get one opportunity, right?

Congrats!