Heather, it isn't easy losing a beloved kitty. My beloved siamese, Thai passed away last August 23rd. She lived to the age of 22 years. Whether it's 3 weeks or ten months the hurt is still there. And don't blame yourself for the circumstances of her falling.you couldn't help it. Heather, take comfort in the fact that she is now playing over the rainbow bridge,romping around with my Thai.