Carrie,
We do agree 100% on this one!!!!! In hunting I see so many people training their dogs with collars and it infuriates me. Some of these dogs are so beaten down with negative corrections they do what is expected out of fear. I'd rather have a ignorant dog than a fearful one.

Get rid of the collar - please! Try to find a good dog behaviorist in your area. You won't regret it.

From your post it sounds like you are willing to do what is necessary to correct this problem. A professional can show you how to work with your dog in a positive way! If you contact a good dog obedience school in your area, they may be able to recommend one for you. Best of luck!