Most people know me as a rather shy person...I don't talk much and in social situations it *seems* as if I'm not a participant. Many people just don't notice me, I'm functionally invisible. Most of the time though, I'm just standing there keeping my ears open and I have a really bad habit of remembering mostly anything people say. The hubby jokingly calls me his day planer with a tape recorder because when he is meeting with clients and such, I usually can remember dates, times etc without fail even though it looks like I'm not paying attention at all. I've always had a talent for it I guess...my close buddies say I should go work for the FBI or something.