I had to move, of course, a few times in my life and I'll willing to bet that the move will be harder on you then the cat.

I never did have any problems with any of my babies. As long as they had their same couch, same bed etc etc they didn't seem to mind the new house. As long as the smells and the people where the same, they where happy. The biggest problem I had was them remembering where the new kitty litter box was. They cheated and used a house plant once or twice.

Your kitty will be fine, I'm sure, as long as she has you there to make her feel safe. Just find a safe room to put her in during moving in of boxes and stuff, where you know she wont get out. Check on her every once in a while and give her some loveing. Keep her in the carrier if you have to if you feel safer that way, but get her use to it now if thats what your going to do.

I'm not big on the boarding idea, but thats just me. I just know I'd hate to be taken out of one home, put into another place and the again moved into a new home. But like I said thats just me, I see things as if it was me going through it and maybe thats wrong, cats might not see it that way.