thanks everyone..it's good to be back even if it's for a few minutes...
Unfortunately, I've learned more about Medicaid, Medicare, Nursing Homes etc since my dad was in one which is why I fought for home care for mom. Never in my life did I imagine I'd have to go through this again. Help? Don't get me started about my brother, but I guess he can't handle it, or wants to. My boyfriend moved in parttime and helps with physical labor things but I do the nursing care and cooking etc.
Maybe for my next job I go into the medical profession..I think I found my calling,,either that or become a lobbyist in Washington for better care for the eldery. Maybe you'll catch my big mouth on TV some day!