All I can say is
WW The truth comes out in the strangest places.
I KNOW that your friends DO care and DO want to know the bad with the good, and I don't think that suggesting they be limited outdoor kitties was said in nastiness. You know your kitties best and what is best for them. I wouldn't even begin to know how to help but other people with multiple cats can give their advice.
I think feelings were hurt here is b/c of the angry way you replied. Sometimes when emotions run high our posts come across as nasty and I think when that happens we have to take a breath and re read what we said.
Good Luck





W The truth comes out in the strangest places.
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