Jhack,
You described Honey perfectly. Believe me, she gets lots of love and attention. We just have to work on these nervous tendencies of hers. What a joy she is.
I hate to hear of the problems you had with yours. That is so sad.
Honey and Lilly are boarded at a very nice facility whenever I have to leave town over night. I used to have a wonderful lady that came and took them in and out for me, but since she is no longer available, I feel better knowing that they are together at the kennel. It costs an arm and a leg, but it is worth the peace of mind I get. And they are so happy to see us when we get home, plus they smell so good after a good bath at the groomers! Isn't it strange that she doesn't show these tendencies at the kennel? She is shy, but not aggressive.
We'll take all of your advice and work with her, and keep on loving her a lot. I'm just working to keep her out of situations that upset her and that is a full time job!