Since almost the beginning of this thread there is a thing that is bothering me and I wanted to keep it for myself (knowing what a war I could start with it), but I decided I have to say it. If it is a discussion, then you have to discuss all its aspects.

How on earth a woman that cannot stand kids, could think of adopting or fostering a child?! The unpleasant aspect of raising kids can be dealt with only love for the children and, in my opinion, with the instinct of protecting your offsprings that only arises when you give birth. I know, there are woman that could do just the same for the kids as if they were her own, but NOT THOSE THAT CANNOT STAND CHILDREN. If I worked for the social service, I would be very selective with prospective parents and one of my main issue would be: WHY they have no kids?

I respect the right to chose if one wants to have children or not. It is not about it. It is right to have them and it is right not to have them. It's one's choice. To be honest with yourself and the world it's the hardest thing.

I am sure, a lot of you will be upset at me. Please be. This is my opinion, and when I have an opinion it's not only that I WANT TO HAVE AN OPINION OF MY OWN, but it is based on something. I've grown to my opinion.

And I hope Missy will delete this thread, even if it is in the Dog House. There were some things said that give me goosebumps.