You have my prayers also. Please try to take it minute by minute and solutions will reveal themselves.

My heart goes out to you in the loss of your Mother and having to deal with your father at the same time. I have a friend who is in exactly the same position as you - except it is her Mother who needs the care and attention. It is not an easy time for you.

I hope that your family will be there for you and support you - it is so important.