Originally posted by shais_mom
She SNAPPED at me "do you have kids" I said "No" she said "Well that explains it"
Shais_mom - I wholeheartedly agree with you - I get so annoyed when people say that to me!! WHAT, because I don't have KIDS I have NO UNDERSTANDING??

I have some friends who are childfree, and one of them got so sick of people asking her and her husband when they were having kids she told them she was infertile, had an infection and had a hysterectomy (all untrue!!) but NO-ONE ever asked her again. That is SAD!

I don't care if you have kids or not. No-one has the right to tell you "right or wrong" whether you should have kids or not. It should be no-ones business but your own!

To those of you who are happily CF - good luck to you! To those of you who have kids (or are in the process of "incubating" a little one, Johanna!!), good luck to you too.

Carole - if and when it ever happens to me, I am PM'ing you. You voiced so many of my concerns, and I think I will need to "bounce" some others off you too!!!

Good thread!