Oh Meg, I'm so sorry you've got this HUGE weight on your shoulders. Divorce is tough on everyone. There's no way around it.

Just try to stay neutral. I don't think it's fair that they have these discussion in front of you or your brother, and I think you should bring that up to them. Maybe they don't realize they're doing it.

Hang in there honey and know that we are all here for you and to vent anytime, okay? As Miss Meow said, things WILL get better!

(((hugs)))