Because of the torture you go through during pregnancy and child birth scare me!
He he.......just kidding. I do think I want children when I'm older and get married. I don't think I want too many, but at least two. I used to LOVE babies when I was a little girl.......I thought they were the cutest things. Then, when I hit my teens, I met some very *crazy* little kids that I simply couldn't tolerate being around. It was like they were born to drive you crazy. I guess I can say, when I was around 13-16 years old, I constantly said *I don't want kids*, whenever I would have an experience with annoying ones. I didn't really *mean it*. Maybe an immature statement due to my age at the time, and issues with certain young children.
Now, when I think about it, I really believe its the upbringing of a child that makes him/her the way he/she is, especially when they are young. I know there are exceptions, but in general, the bad bratty kids are the children of people who really don't pay attention to them, or spoil them way too much. I noticed that parents who spend time with their children and raise them properly have some of the sweetest kids you can imagine. I think some babies are absolutely adorable. I think I would like to have some when I'm older. I'm not crazy about children........and honestly, I don't even like most kids, but kids love me for some reason, and I think I would want a little girl at some point in life. As of now, I don't even want to think of it, but I can't say I don't want kids period. Pregnancy/child birth scares me, but if all women can do it, maybe I can too.He he. I've never exactly thought too deeply about wanting children. I don't have any desire for kids right now, but I am still young. Maybe I will have that maternal desire when I'm older. Maybe...
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