Hi SnoGirl, and welcome to Pet Talk! Congratulations on adopting your new pup! She sounds adorable.

We crate trained Daisy and I never felt cruel doing it. I think it was the right decision. We were home almost all the time, but if we went somewhere, she went into the crate with toys and a bed. She also slept in there. Carrie, sorry to disagree, but Daisy's behaviorist said it is like a den to her. It's their private get-away. They will not go to the bathroom there because they know they have to sleep there. If Sadie seems to not like going in her crate, it may be because of the shelter. Try putting a kong in there with her to distract her, and NEVER use the crate as a punishment. She will grow to like going in there. Good luck with your new pup, and keep us updated on how she is doing!