I go in and give Bubby love all the time on the cat tree, he's just happiest and coziest there and it's right next to a big window so it's a perfect perch. He's not much of a lap cat except for certain times (like in the morning) He's not deprived of lovin' at all but I'm sure he would enjoy some of your cuddles

Thanks again for the nice compliments, you are all my favorite audience for sure. Most people just don't understand my cat love

Catlover4ever - My fiance and I are originally from CT also (him more recently than me), he grew up in Bristol and I lived in Simsbury and Westport when I was there. Small world!