Originally posted by moosmom
If you pick her up and she gets rough, put her down IMMEDIATELY, say "NO!!" very firmly and then walk away. This will let her know that kind of play will not be tolerated. It should take her long before she gets the idea. You can also try a spray bottle. Say no firmly and squirt her with the spray bottle, anywhere but in the face.

Good luck!
The "NO!!" does work. I would also cry when the boy cat would try to hurt me. Loud, like a baby. I knew that he did not like loud noises. He would try to sulk off in the corner but he could not get away from the long, loud moans I would make.