Thanks everyone! You're right, it's probably the best to not invite him anymore.

When Lily was younger, he once picked her up by her neck - as happened to poor Edwina. I told him that only the mother cats are allowed to do that, and that it hurts otherwise. Okay, I know that many people do not know this, but that moment he has realized how protective I am over my cats, and I guess for that reason he's using my cats now to tease me.

Twink, I'm so sorry to hear about that and I can understand so well how you must feel about it. Poor Rizzo! Why is your brother doing this to him? Putting his head into his mouth sounds almost abusive to me (sorry to say that, but I really can't understand why people are doing this!). Sounds like your brother feels he has a very close relationship to Rizz, but after all, it's not his cat. And I guess it's better he does not have his own cat. Not easy to understand some people's acting...

Kirsten