What a horrible thing to do to poor Lily.

As he doesn't listen I just wouldn't invite him back again - and I make sure your mum knows why!

I am the same - there are people who are not welcome in my house because they don't treat Ally and Connor nicely.

In my opinion it's just like having kids - you want whats best for them, and if someone isn't nice to them you shouldn't have to put up with them visiting!

(((HUGS)))) - hope your back feels better soon. Have you tried a nice loooong soak in a bubble bath - does wonders for body and soul!