Grrr... Why not return the favor? Next time you go over to HIS house, pretend to go to the restroom, only run around to another room (say the kitchen) and wait for him to enter the room - then jump out and yell BOOOOO.

Now, some serious advice. Based on your previous posts about your mther, she has no regard for your girls. I'm sure you've tried to get ther to see your affection for them, but its apparently fallen on dear ears. I'm so sorry. Is thee anybody thats is friend or family that also loves their pets that could talk to your mom on your behalf? Perhaps if she hears the same thing from someone else she'll be more understanding.

For some reason, people find it funny to scare animals. I can't imagine what the excitement is. Oh goodie, they can show dominance over the animals... big stud he is, spooking a loving kitten.

Thank goodness that my mom understands my love of my animals!