MHMama, please accept my condolences for the loss of your beloved Pinky. And thanks for warning us to be careful with our furry friends.

I, too, carry the guilt of committing a stupid little mistake that cost the lives of all three of my kitties I had at the time. It is a very difficult thing to get over. In fact, I felt so guilty that, after having had cats for 40 years (we had cats when I was born) I swore I would never have another, because they weren't safe in my hands. I think God was telling me that wasn't true, though, because a few months later a pregnant little homeless kitty showed up at my door and let herself in.

We all make mistakes. Sadly, sometimes those mistakes have tragic results. But Pinky was truly loved and had a wonderful 10 years. That's alot more than some kitties get because they never had loving humans taking care of them, and she knows that.