Thank you all for your replies. I appreciate all the advice. I will try just letting them work things out for themselves. I just didn't want Maci to think I was favoring Allie if I didn't stand up for her when Allie was being bossy. She (Maci) probably doesn't think that, I just didn't want her to think we loved Allie more than her. Having two dogs can be a challenge, you never know what is the right thing to do, but I think your advice was right, just let them figure it out

Jessica