Looks like a ton of fun!!
Nope not morbid visiting the grave almost everytime I go to my parents house, I go to Shaianne's marker and tell her "hello"
The first time I took Keegan there when she was about 8 weeks old she ran right up to the cross and laid down all the sudden with her head in her paws. It was almost like she was 'bowing' down if you will to Shaianne and telling her that "I am gonna take care of Mommie now. -k-?"