I'm not religious or anything so I want to know why it's such a big "sin" to be gay? (Please don't just say "because god wants it that way"...I don't find that to be a valid argument, i want to know WHY he wants it that way...and I know that it says somewhere that he wants marriage to be between a man and a woman but WHY?) Why keep people who love each other apart? I thought god was about love forgiveness.

I'm 100% for gay marriages. If people love each other then let them get married. It saddens me that this even has to be an issue, I mean why can't we just let them be happy together?