Thanks everyone. I thought I was doing the right thing but after I got home and heard what he had to say I did start to wonder.

He seem to feel walking out was rude and I should trust Dr. Anderson's choice in his son-in-law and that if he told me Cali would be fine for the op. even if she was in heat, I should have gotton it over with.

Wait till I tell him, I'm not the only one who thinks I made a good choise. LOL

Of course tonight, there's that little part of me that wishs I had. It's 3am and I'm up with a meowing kitty. She only happy when I with her, if not she sits at the window moewing and meowing, VERY loud! Poor baby doesn't know what to think or do with these new feelings.