Wolfie thank you much for your reply. You know, I wouldn't even care if they were inside or outside. I would do anything to break them up including throwing water on them inside the house. I think I'll leave a hose and sprayer on the ready, close to the room they usually fight in. Maybe even a bucket of water on the floor. Heck, lol.....it might come in handy if there was a fire!! Actually it happens LESS frequently now but every time is a nightmare.

Clara thanks for that 'wheelbarrow' technique. I've heard of this before. Grabbing the hind legs and pulling them apart, yes. I think that would work really well with others here to help me, but I was alone then. Absolutely right about giving them separate time to let that adrenaline fade away. LOL yep I know what you mean about them getting 'pissy'. pretty weird. We need to get inside their heads and understand how they relate to one another. Thank you lots for your ideas! I appreciate it.

Kittenwhiskerz ~CA~