I think grades, especially the ones that are lower than expected, are a personal thing, between the kid and their parents. I can't imagine sharing "bad" news with a relative and having them contact my daughter directly about it! I'm the mother of a 13 year old 7th grader. She does beautifully in school, but even when she does bring that unusual bad grade home, we work through it here, without bringing outsiders into it!

Julie, you can do exactly what is expected, without all the interference from outsiders. You are a smart girl, and I just know it from reading all that you have to say right here! Take your time to concentrate on your school work, ignore outside comments, and prove to yourself that you can do it!!! I know you can!!!!