I kinda know how you feel..in a sense anyway. My dad will compair me to my brother or the other way around. Sometimes if I don't understand a problem he'll call my brother in for him to do it (or the other way around..depending) and it makes me and him feel like crap..like why can't you be like your brother or something. It's so annoying. I never did amazingly in high school either. I thought it was sooo boring. My dad never really pounded on me for not doing as well as I could have, but he never said anything if I did well either. Basically 'You could have done better'

Try not to let it get to you, I'm sure everything will work out fine sooner or later :X Did you try telling them how it makes you feel?